Jrpass

Before arriving Tokyo we will be visiting Bangkok and Hong Kong.
Is it possible to send it to my hotels either in Bangkok or Hong Kong?

How long does it take for the courier?
Can the hotel reception receive the courier with thre absence of us?
We are planning to use the JRPass for the below routes, does it worth buying the JRpass or normal tickets? Tokyo to kyoto
Kyoto to osaka round trip
Kyoto to hyroshima round trip
Kyoto to tokyo
Tokyo station to narita airport

Can we use the trains with our luggages?

Thanks,
Harika Baydin